Do You Want Your Spouse to Arouse You Sexually?

Do you want your spouse to arouse you sexually? Some people avoid having their spouse turn them on. There’s a lot of reasons for not wanting to be excited.

Some of those reasons are:

  • too tired to have sex
  • don’t want to feel ready for sex and get turned down by your spouse
  • don’t want to be disappointed if the sexual engagement isn’t fulfilling
  • you’re upset with your spouse
  • you feel disconnected
  • no time to be together

There are many reasons that people avoid arousal. It is ok to be in that position on occasion- especially if there is no way you can make a sexual encounter happen. However, if you make it a pattern, because you’re too tired, or you’re avoiding problems, it will damage your relationship.

Sex is an integral part of a healthy relationship. Confront the issues that cause you to avoid arousal. Stop trying to turn yourself off in a day, and let your spouse stimulate you. Don’t be afraid to desire sex.

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