Stop Using What Porn Depicts as a Reason to Not Try New Things in Bed

I get it- I do. The thought of porn absolutely sickens me. No longer is this a habit that was once something you had to go out of your way for, now it’s in your face whether you like it or not.

I believe that porn is destroying marriages, romantic relationships, and hurts those that use it. I HATE porn!

That being said, I think that it is really important that we stop using the rise of porn as a reason to not be adventurous in bed. There are many women and men out there that are so scared to try anything new, because they are worried it will resemble porn.

Of course, there are plenty of things depicted that you should stay away from, but does that mean you can’t do anything that is done on screen?

God Created Sex For Us to Enjoy It

Let’s get one thing straight here, God creates sex. He created it for us as married people, to connect and unite with one another. It is a symbol of us becoming one person, by joining together in physically.

Satan Always Corrupts What God Intended For Good

Sex is a good thing that was given to us by a loving God. The problem is, Satan has worked to corrupt this gift, just like he has done with other things that God gave us.

Porn is a corruption of the pure and holy thing the we were given. Does that make every foreplay move and sexual act in porn bad? NO!

Porn Tells You Sex is All About You

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Here’s the thing about porn- it is all selfish. When you watch it, you are being selfish. You are saying that the purpose of sex is all about you and your gratification.

The other thing about porn is that it depicts selfishness as well. One actor (usually the man) is doing everything he can for his own pleasure- nevermind his partner.

Physical union isn’t supposed to be selfish. If the entire reason you are having sex is to focus on your pleasure alone- then you are missing out on the gift God gave us.

You Can Have an Adventurous Sex Life With Your Spouse

Don’t let what porn has done to sex distort the freedom you have with your lover. Just because a sexual act or foreplay idea is seen on the screen, doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy it with your spouse. You aren’t corrupting your marriage bed, because you and your spouse did something that actors took part in.

If that is the case, then we have to stop having sex altogether, because other people have corrupted it. In fact, if we keep following that same logic, then we have to abandon all things that are good and holy because of what society has done to it.

Worship God Through Your Love Life

When you are thinking about trying new things in the bedroom with your spouse, ask yourself if what you are doing is honoring to God. It isn’t honoring to Him to mistreat your spouse or be mistreated by them. If they want to do something that degrades or abuses- then say no.

Also, it isn’t honoring to God for either you or your spouse to make sex all about yourself. That is not to say that you can’t have times when you accept pleasure without giving it, but your whole love life can’t be one sided. Both people should be giving and receiving during your times together.

Don’t let what this world has done to the good things God gave us, keep you from being adventurous. Explore your spouse and enjoy them in bed. Honor God through your love making.

Just so you know- these are my thoughts on porn.

Not Everyone is Doing it- Stop Believing the Lies That Porn is Healthy

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