Sex Toys- Yay or Nay?

*this post contains affiliate links I know that the subject of whether or not you should use sex toys is pretty controversial. However, controversial or not, we need to have this conversation. I try hard to never stay away from a topic because it might bring a severe amount of judgement on me. When it comes to sex toys, I think a lot of people have hangups- and rightly so. For many people, the first thing that comes to mind when they think of toys are handcuffs and tickle whips. Sex Toys For Erectile Dysfunction and Reaching Orgasm Did you…

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My Favorite Sexy Bedroom Game For Married Couples

Before I became a blogger, Austin and I created this sexy bedroom game to play. We actually made it for someone else to enjoy, but decided we would use ourselves, also. It turned out to be a huge benefit for us as a married couple. Not only that, it has helped us to be creative in developing other couples bedroom games. How Sexy Bedroom Games Help Your Sex Life What I have found with these types of games, it that it can help me be more confident in the bedroom. Since the foreplay moves are so specific, it helps me…

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2 Things You Can Do Tonight to Spice Up Your Sex Life

It is so important to invest in your sex life with your spouse. Every now and then, you can do new things that will keep things spicy in the bedroom. Today, I want to share two things you can try tonight that will spice things up a bit. 1. Try More Than One Sex Position During Your Session All married couples have their old stand bys that they enjoy when it comes to sexual intimacy. Why not try another position before you end the way you like. By doing two or three different sex positions in the same session, you…

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What if My Kids Can Hear Me Having Sex? Help!

I know that a lot of couples worry about being too loud while having sex. It can be a pretty embarrasing thought that someone might be able to hear you. It can be even more embarrassing to think that your children might hear you. Will My Kids Hear Me? There is no real way of knowing whether or not your kids will hear you having sex unless they say something to you. If they are really young, they may ask you about it because of concern. If they are old enough to know what sex is, I’m willing to bet…

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Stop Using What Porn Depicts as a Reason to Not Try New Things in Bed

I get it- I do. The thought of porn absolutely sickens me. No longer is this a habit that was once something you had to go out of your way for, now it’s in your face whether you like it or not. I believe that porn is destroying marriages, romantic relationships, and hurts those that use it. I HATE porn! That being said, I think that it is really important that we stop using the rise of porn as a reason to not be adventurous in bed. There are many women and men out there that are so scared to…

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What to Do When Sex Feels Like a Chore

There are a lot of married people that feel that sex is an obligation. They want to please their spouse, but it feels like more of a chore to mark off their to-do list than it a way to connect on a deeper level with their spouse. What gets someone to the point that they feel like sex is an obligation rather than a privilege? These are a few possibilities that make someone resort to duty sex- Poor understanding of sexual intimacy- Many people do not have a good understanding of the need for sexual intimacy in marriage. This goes…

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What to Do If You Can’t Find Lingerie That You Like?

*This post contains affiliate links I was recently asked if I have any tips in regards to wear to get lingerie or something sexy to wear in the bedroom. This is an area where I don’t know if I have anything revolutionary to say, because I have a hard time finding lingerie to fit me. Sexy Outfits Can Be a Good Alternative to Lingerie However, what I try to focus on the most when it comes to this area, is to create sexy outfits. I’ve had a lot of hit and miss luck when it comes to finding lingerie that…

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How Shame Keeps You From Enjoying Sex

Recently, I talked about how shame can keep you from enjoying sex on Periscope. I had many people tell me that it really resonated with them. That lets me know that a lot of people are being held back from enjoying their sex life. When you feel shame for whatever reason, it keeps you from allowing yourself to let go during your physical intimacy. Today, I want to talk with you about the different reasons you may be feeling shame. It can be very hard to deal with your past and your feelings, but I encourage you to step out…

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Questions About Sex- What’s Ok or Not Ok

The other day on Periscope, I tackled a series of questions about sex and what’s ok or not ok in the bedroom. I know that a lot of people are asking what’s ok to do and what isn’t for Christians. There are a few things that I will take a hard stance on, but many foreplay moves, I think you and your spouse have to figure that out. Here are the questions I answered. Is Porn Ok To Watch? This is one of those things that I take a hard and fast stance on as being wrong. The Bible tells…

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What a Couple Can Do to Feel Sexy Together

Yay for the weekend! If you weekends mean anything to you. I know that since I work from home, it can make weekends not quite as exciting as they used to be. Either way, Austin and I try to spend extra time on one another since work schedules are often lighter. This week on Persicope, I’ve been on a body image kick. I was asked to talk more about feeling insecure about the way you look and how to feel better about your body. I think that it is so important that as a couple, you work to help the…

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