2 Ways to Boost Your Libido

Do you feel like you are never in the mood to have sex? Maybe your spouse seems to experience this. Either way, when sexual needs aren’t being met in the marriage, it can put a lot of stress and strain on the relationship. If you are struggling in this area, I’ve got two suggestions for you to try- 1. Tell yourself you want to have sex Sex is for you, your spouse, and ultimately the health of your marriage. You have sexual needs and so does your spouse. Maybe you haven’t allowed yourself to really explore physical intimacy. It could…

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Exercises For Women That Make Sex Easier

A few months ago, I made some major health changes. In addition to a diet change, I also started working on strength training. I’ve had some positive effects from the exercises I’ve been doing. Aside from general increase of stamina, I’ve noticed it has helped a lot when it comes to sex. Here are a few of the exercises that I have been doing that have targeted the muscles used for orgasm. You can watch those exercises in the video I created the other day.

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Sex in Marriage is a Need

Last week, I received a comment from a reader that their spouse doesn’t see sex as a need, rather a want. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Sometimes, we have this idea that sex is like dessert. It is something you enjoy having, but not necessary to sustain life. If you want to have a healthy marriage, you have to look at sex as food that the relationship will use to thrive and grow. I talk more about this concept in this video. Resources For Increasing Libido and Having Better Sex Bonny over at OysterBed7 writes for low drive…

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6 Ways to Flirt With Your Spouse

Tomorrow, I’m bringing on a guest to talk about wives flirting with their husbands. Her name is Rebekah Hargraves from Hargraves Home and Hearth. She has a few suggestions of how wives can flirt with their husbands. I think these same suggestions can go both ways. Here’s what she has to say- Send him flirty little text messages during the day, letting him know you’re thinking of him Hide notes in the lunch container he takes to work, in his car, or on his side of the bed Let him know you’re wearing something flirty Tell him you are looking…

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Spicing up a Specific Area of Your Sex Life

Healthy relationships move forward. Couples should always try to communicate better, be deeper friends, have more passionate romance and hotter sex. This last area can be tricky sometimes. How can we make sex hotter? What if you try focusing on one area at a time? Focus on your go-to position. Or maybe get together a list of new positions. How about kicking your oral sex up a notch? Let’s take a look at a few things that can help make oral sex better. Ease into things It can help to start slow when it comes to oral sex. Such direct…

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What is Vajazzling?

I was listening to the ladies over at Sex Chat For Christian Wives and they were talking about vajazzling. This was a new one on me, so I looked up what it was. What is Vajazzling? Do you remember back in the late 80’s the bedazzler? I had one when I was a kid. It allowed you to put jewels on your clothing with a tool. Vajazzling is basically the same thing for your vagina. This is a service that is offered at some beauty salons. If you are anything like me, I do everything I can for myself. I…

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Ways to Spice it Up in the Bedroom Podcast

I had the great opportunity of being interviewed by Tony Ingrassia the other day. He runs the Power of Purity Podcast. You can check out the thins I share about spicing it up in your sex life. Check out this interview through the link below. Spice it Up 

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9 Top Sex Toys For Valentine’s Day

I had a great chat with the owner over at Married Dance earlier today. He shared with me the top selling sex toys for Valentine’s Day this year. Here’s a list of what people are buying. Oh, don’t forget to use the coupon code LOVE at checkout for an extra 10% off  your order. 1. Big O Vibrating Ring This toy had a dual purpose. The ring part goes on the husband’s penis. It allows him to have a harder erection. The vibrator part can go up against the wife’s clitoris to help her orgasm. It can also be spun around…

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5 Ways to Turn Your Husband On

I think we women have been so conditioned that men can get turned on the moment we drop our panties, that we get surprised when they don’t. I’m not saying that it doesn’t ever get your husband excited, but many things can affect his ability to get hard. If he isn’t physically ready, then you will need to take action. Here are a few ideas to get you started. 1. Pay Attention to His Nipples Just like many women enjoy nipple play, so do many men. Start out slow and work your way up. You can gently rub your fingers…

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Free eBook Creative Conversation Starters For Couples

If you haven’t had a chance to get a copy of our Creative Conversation Starters for Couples, now’s a great time. The ebook version is currently free on Amazon. It will be free to download until Monday. This book has 10 chapters that are designed to get you and your spouse talking. The focused topics will help you have great discussions and hopefully learn something new about one another. Check it out on Amazon today. Don’t wait to get it, because it won’t be free forever.

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