You Don’t Have to Be Freak to Be Sexually Adventurous

I think that a lot of people avoid things in the bedroom because they are worried about being labeled a freak in the bedroom. When you embrace sex as the gift God gave you and that He designed us to explore one another, then you will have so much more freedom in the bedroom. I wrote more about this idea and ways you can explore your lover over on my sister site- Love Hope Adventure. You Don’t Have to Be a Freak to Be Sexually Adventurous

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Expect to Orgasm Every Time

There was a time that I didn’t expect to have an orgasm every time I had sex. I realize that seems completely crazy for husbands, but many wives say they can take it or leave it. The problem I find with this concept- is that it easily leads to duty sex. Why Not Expecting Orgasm Leads to Duty Sex Sex should feel good- to both people. When sex only feels good to one person, it tends to move to the chore list for the one that’s not experiencing the high. And why wouldn’t it? If you don’t feel you are…

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Let Your Spouse See You Fully Naked

Every single time I suggest that you guys let your spouse get a good close look at you naked- I get a lot of pushback. I’ve heard everything from- My spouse doesn’t want to see me naked. They don’t think I’m attractive. I’ve changed down there since my birth. I don’t think I could ever do that. …and son on. It’s time to stop it. I understand you have fears…but let’s band together and commit to working through those issues, instead of letting them rob you any longer. Here me when I say this, sweet reader- that you are a…

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My Spouse Doesn’t Make Sex A Priority and I Feel Unloved

I had a reader write in and share with me that they wish their spouse would make sex more of a priority. In fact, the lack of priority is causing them to feel unloved. If you are in that place, I wrote this article just for you. Hop on over to my sister site, Love Hope Adventure to listen in to what I have to say or read my response. My Spouse Doesn’t Make Sex a Priority and I Feel Unloved 

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How to Stop Feeling Grossed Out When Giving Your Husband Oral Sex

After I sent wrote about how to stop feeling grossed out on receiving oral sex, I received more questions about giving. One reader wanted to know how to stop feeling grossed out by giving their husband oral sex. This is such a tough topic, but one we really need to work through. If your spouse really enjoys foreplay moves or sex positions, it would be honoring for you to figure out how to make it happen. So, if you are struggling with this, but want to give oral sex a try, then try these ideas. 1. Work through your mindset….

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How to Stop Feeling Grossed Out By Receiving Oral Sex

I am often asked about how to get more comfortable with oral sex. In fact, I’ve written about it a few different times. This week, I’m answering a reader question. Here’s what they asked- Oral sex, no matter what, gives me the willies…is that normal?? I hate it. How can I get past that? Here’s what I shared with them- Yes, it is completely normal to feel grossed out by oral sex. A lot of men and women struggle with that. If you want to like it, then there’s a few things I suggest- 1. Figure out why oral sex…

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Are You Showing Self Control in Your Sex Life?

We are advocates of sexual purity being a life long commitment to God. This isn’t something that is just for singles, but also for us in our married life. Sexual purity looks different in our single lives as it is in our married lives. Today, I am talking about showing self control in your sex life. This isn’t just a purity issue, there are other implication to not showing control in regards to sex within your marriage. Listen in on what I have to say in this video.  

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Do You Want Your Spouse to Arouse You Sexually?

Do you want your spouse to arouse you sexually? Some people avoid having their spouse turn them on. There’s a lot of reasons for not wanting to be excited. Some of those reasons are: too tired to have sex don’t want to feel ready for sex and get turned down by your spouse don’t want to be disappointed if the sexual engagement isn’t fulfilling you’re upset with your spouse you feel disconnected no time to be together There are many reasons that people avoid arousal. It is ok to be in that position on occasion- especially if there is no…

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Have You Taken The Snuggle Challenge?

I wrote about the snuggle experiment that I has conducting on Austin without his knowledge. If you didn’t know, physical touch is his love language, but it can be a bit bothersome to me. I’ve been called a touch-me-not all of my life. For that reason, I’ve had to be really intentional with physical touch. Don’t confuse physical touch with sexual intimacy. These are actually two separate things. Physical touch is the non-sexual hugs, kisses, and touching that we crave as  humans. I’ve been taking the snuggle challenge myself for a few weeks, and I’ve had some really startling results….

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Frenulum Oral Stimulation For Men

I think that many women shy away from giving their husband’s oral sex, because they aren’t sure what to do. I can also understand those that don’t want to run a random Google search on giving good head. There’s no telling what types of content you will encounter. That is why I want to share with you a great oral sex technique for a wife to do on her husband. It is called the Frenulum technique. Check out exactly how to do this over at Married Christian Sex. El Fury explains exactly how to do this able gives you great…

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