My Spouse Doesn’t Make Sex A Priority and I Feel Unloved

I had a reader write in and share with me that they wish their spouse would make sex more of a priority. In fact, the lack of priority is causing them to feel unloved. If you are in that place, I wrote this article just for you. Hop on over to my sister site, Love Hope Adventure to listen in to what I have to say or read my response. My Spouse Doesn’t Make Sex a Priority and I Feel Unloved 

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How to Stop Feeling Grossed Out When Giving Your Husband Oral Sex

After I sent wrote about how to stop feeling grossed out on receiving oral sex, I received more questions about giving. One reader wanted to know how to stop feeling grossed out by giving their husband oral sex. This is such a tough topic, but one we really need to work through. If your spouse really enjoys foreplay moves or sex positions, it would be honoring for you to figure out how to make it happen. So, if you are struggling with this, but want to give oral sex a try, then try these ideas. 1. Work through your mindset….

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How to Stop Feeling Grossed Out By Receiving Oral Sex

I am often asked about how to get more comfortable with oral sex. In fact, I’ve written about it a few different times. This week, I’m answering a reader question. Here’s what they asked- Oral sex, no matter what, gives me the willies…is that normal?? I hate it. How can I get past that? Here’s what I shared with them- Yes, it is completely normal to feel grossed out by oral sex. A lot of men and women struggle with that. If you want to like it, then there’s a few things I suggest- 1. Figure out why oral sex…

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Are You Showing Self Control in Your Sex Life?

We are advocates of sexual purity being a life long commitment to God. This isn’t something that is just for singles, but also for us in our married life. Sexual purity looks different in our single lives as it is in our married lives. Today, I am talking about showing self control in your sex life. This isn’t just a purity issue, there are other implication to not showing control in regards to sex within your marriage. Listen in on what I have to say in this video.  

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Do You Want Your Spouse to Arouse You Sexually?

Do you want your spouse to arouse you sexually? Some people avoid having their spouse turn them on. There’s a lot of reasons for not wanting to be excited. Some of those reasons are: too tired to have sex don’t want to feel ready for sex and get turned down by your spouse don’t want to be disappointed if the sexual engagement isn’t fulfilling you’re upset with your spouse you feel disconnected no time to be together There are many reasons that people avoid arousal. It is ok to be in that position on occasion- especially if there is no…

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Have You Taken The Snuggle Challenge?

I wrote about the snuggle experiment that I has conducting on Austin without his knowledge. If you didn’t know, physical touch is his love language, but it can be a bit bothersome to me. I’ve been called a touch-me-not all of my life. For that reason, I’ve had to be really intentional with physical touch. Don’t confuse physical touch with sexual intimacy. These are actually two separate things. Physical touch is the non-sexual hugs, kisses, and touching that we crave as  humans. I’ve been taking the snuggle challenge myself for a few weeks, and I’ve had some really startling results….

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Frenulum Oral Stimulation For Men

I think that many women shy away from giving their husband’s oral sex, because they aren’t sure what to do. I can also understand those that don’t want to run a random Google search on giving good head. There’s no telling what types of content you will encounter. That is why I want to share with you a great oral sex technique for a wife to do on her husband. It is called the Frenulum technique. Check out exactly how to do this over at Married Christian Sex. El Fury explains exactly how to do this able gives you great…

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2 Ways to Boost Your Libido

Do you feel like you are never in the mood to have sex? Maybe your spouse seems to experience this. Either way, when sexual needs aren’t being met in the marriage, it can put a lot of stress and strain on the relationship. If you are struggling in this area, I’ve got two suggestions for you to try- 1. Tell yourself you want to have sex Sex is for you, your spouse, and ultimately the health of your marriage. You have sexual needs and so does your spouse. Maybe you haven’t allowed yourself to really explore physical intimacy. It could…

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Exercises For Women That Make Sex Easier

A few months ago, I made some major health changes. In addition to a diet change, I also started working on strength training. I’ve had some positive effects from the exercises I’ve been doing. Aside from general increase of stamina, I’ve noticed it has helped a lot when it comes to sex. Here are a few of the exercises that I have been doing that have targeted the muscles used for orgasm. You can watch those exercises in the video I created the other day.

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Sex in Marriage is a Need

Last week, I received a comment from a reader that their spouse doesn’t see sex as a need, rather a want. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Sometimes, we have this idea that sex is like dessert. It is something you enjoy having, but not necessary to sustain life. If you want to have a healthy marriage, you have to look at sex as food that the relationship will use to thrive and grow. I talk more about this concept in this video. Resources For Increasing Libido and Having Better Sex Bonny over at OysterBed7 writes for low drive…

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