I’m a huge advocate of dating in your marriage. Dating is a time where you and your spouse can come together to focus on one another. Of course, you have to make the commitment that you are going to put away your phones and spend the time talking about things other than your responsibilities.
There are many types of dates you can incorporate into your marriage. I think that sex dates is definitely one of those.
What is a Sex Date?
Basically, a sex date is a time when you and your spouse are going to spend the time having sex. I know it can seem a bit daunting to schedule a couple hours to be intimate, but this can be a lot of fun.
When you block out this much time to have sex with one another, you are going to have time to be adventurous. It can be hard to try new things if you are on limited time every time you are intimate.
What to Do on a Sex Date
To have a successful night with one another, you need to put together a plan. It would be good to discuss your expectations ahead of time. Knowing what the other has in mind for the date will help you have a better experience.
Here’s a few ideas for your sex date.
Dine in Lingerie or the Nude
Just because you plan to enjoy physical intimacy with one another, doesn’t mean you can’t eat. If you have the ability, you can have dinner for two while dressed in something sexy or nothing at all.
Have Sexy Conversations
Whether you are having a meal together or not, steer your conversations to sex. Here are a few prompts that you can use to get yourselves in the mood.
- What did you think the first time you saw me naked?
- What was the best part of having sex the first time?
- How do you think we have matured in our sex life from the beginning?
- What position would you like to try tonight?
- Describe to me your favorite part of my body in detail.
- If you could kiss any part of my body right this second, what would it be?
- What does it feel like to orgasm?
Talking about these things will get you in the mood, as well as help you both learn more about your sexual preferences.
Play a Bedroom Game
One of the reasons that Austin and I have created so many bedroom games, is we realize how beneficial they are. When you have cards that give your foreplay prompts, it helps you enjoy your intimacy. For one thing, you don’t have to try and figure out what you want to do, which takes a lot of pressure off.
The other great thing about bedroom games, the prompts can take you outside of your comfort zone. What’s written on the cards may not be things you’ve tried before.
These are my favorite bedroom games-
Try a Different Position
There are so many different sex positions that you can try during your date night. I would suggest that you pull up a few ideas and try more than one. My favorite place to get sex position ideas is at Christian Friendly Sex Positions.
Dance in The Nude
Put on some music that you can dance to. Either start with your clothes off, or take them off as you go. This is a good way to enjoy your time together.
These are a few of the things you can do on your sex date together. After a night like this, you will feel re-connected.