Do You Want Your Spouse to Arouse You Sexually?

Do you want your spouse to arouse you sexually? Some people avoid having their spouse turn them on. There’s a lot of reasons for not wanting to be excited. Some of those reasons are: too tired to have sex don’t want to feel ready for sex and get turned down by your spouse don’t want to be disappointed if the sexual engagement isn’t fulfilling you’re upset with your spouse you feel disconnected no time to be together There are many reasons that people avoid arousal. It is ok to be in that position on occasion- especially if there is no…

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Have You Taken The Snuggle Challenge?

I wrote about the snuggle experiment that I has conducting on Austin without his knowledge. If you didn’t know, physical touch is his love language, but it can be a bit bothersome to me. I’ve been called a touch-me-not all of my life. For that reason, I’ve had to be really intentional with physical touch. Don’t confuse physical touch with sexual intimacy. These are actually two separate things. Physical touch is the non-sexual hugs, kisses, and touching that we crave as  humans. I’ve been taking the snuggle challenge myself for a few weeks, and I’ve had some really startling results….

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Frenulum Oral Stimulation For Men

I think that many women shy away from giving their husband’s oral sex, because they aren’t sure what to do. I can also understand those that don’t want to run a random Google search on giving good head. There’s no telling what types of content you will encounter. That is why I want to share with you a great oral sex technique for a wife to do on her husband. It is called the Frenulum technique. Check out exactly how to do this over at Married Christian Sex. El Fury explains exactly how to do this able gives you great…

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2 Ways to Boost Your Libido

Do you feel like you are never in the mood to have sex? Maybe your spouse seems to experience this. Either way, when sexual needs aren’t being met in the marriage, it can put a lot of stress and strain on the relationship. If you are struggling in this area, I’ve got two suggestions for you to try- 1. Tell yourself you want to have sex Sex is for you, your spouse, and ultimately the health of your marriage. You have sexual needs and so does your spouse. Maybe you haven’t allowed yourself to really explore physical intimacy. It could…

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Exercises For Women That Make Sex Easier

A few months ago, I made some major health changes. In addition to a diet change, I also started working on strength training. I’ve had some positive effects from the exercises I’ve been doing. Aside from general increase of stamina, I’ve noticed it has helped a lot when it comes to sex. Here are a few of the exercises that I have been doing that have targeted the muscles used for orgasm. You can watch those exercises in the video I created the other day.

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Sex in Marriage is a Need

Last week, I received a comment from a reader that their spouse doesn’t see sex as a need, rather a want. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Sometimes, we have this idea that sex is like dessert. It is something you enjoy having, but not necessary to sustain life. If you want to have a healthy marriage, you have to look at sex as food that the relationship will use to thrive and grow. I talk more about this concept in this video. Resources For Increasing Libido and Having Better Sex Bonny over at OysterBed7 writes for low drive…

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6 Ways to Flirt With Your Spouse

Tomorrow, I’m bringing on a guest to talk about wives flirting with their husbands. Her name is Rebekah Hargraves from Hargraves Home and Hearth. She has a few suggestions of how wives can flirt with their husbands. I think these same suggestions can go both ways. Here’s what she has to say- Send him flirty little text messages during the day, letting him know you’re thinking of him Hide notes in the lunch container he takes to work, in his car, or on his side of the bed Let him know you’re wearing something flirty Tell him you are looking…

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Spicing up a Specific Area of Your Sex Life

Healthy relationships move forward. Couples should always try to communicate better, be deeper friends, have more passionate romance and hotter sex. This last area can be tricky sometimes. How can we make sex hotter? What if you try focusing on one area at a time? Focus on your go-to position. Or maybe get together a list of new positions. How about kicking your oral sex up a notch? Let’s take a look at a few things that can help make oral sex better. Ease into things It can help to start slow when it comes to oral sex. Such direct…

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What is Vajazzling?

I was listening to the ladies over at Sex Chat For Christian Wives and they were talking about vajazzling. This was a new one on me, so I looked up what it was. What is Vajazzling? Do you remember back in the late 80’s the bedazzler? I had one when I was a kid. It allowed you to put jewels on your clothing with a tool. Vajazzling is basically the same thing for your vagina. This is a service that is offered at some beauty salons. If you are anything like me, I do everything I can for myself. I…

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Ways to Spice it Up in the Bedroom Podcast

I had the great opportunity of being interviewed by Tony Ingrassia the other day. He runs the Power of Purity Podcast. You can check out the thins I share about spicing it up in your sex life. Check out this interview through the link below. Spice it Up 

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