How to Talk About Your Sexual Fantasies With Your Spouse

I get it, it’s really hard to talk about sexual fantasies with your spouse. In fact, some people think that it is more intimate to talk about sex even more so than having sex. You have to open yourself up and share your feelings and emotions. We had Jay Dee from Uncovering Intimacy on a webinar with us recently to talk about this very thing. He said that many of his readers say that they struggle in this area. He gave us some really great advice. You can check out the webinar and listen in. If you would rather read…

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Top 10 Sex Positions

I received this amazing resource from the owner of Christian Friendly Sex Positions. He put together a list of the top 10 sex positions from 2017. These are the top ranking positions on his website. I would say that many couples should be able to do at least a few off this list. Check out the hottest sex positions from this past year- 10. Packing the Suitcase   This position requires the wife to raise her legs above her head. If she is not quite flexible enough for that, then she should bring her legs to the side and not…

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What Are Things That Distract You During Sex?

Do you feel distracted during sex? If so, you’re not the only one. Many couples struggle with this for many different reasons. Maybe you find your mind wandering to things you need to get done in a day. Or, maybe something happens that kills the mood for you. Here’s a few distracting things that can happen during sex and ways to keep it from happening. You can’t keep all distractions down, but you can reduce them with some planning. Distractions That Happen During Sex

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Rock Your Sex Life With These Black Friday Deals

I bet you’ve seen a lot of Black Friday and Cyber Monday roundups over the last few days…at least I know I have. I’m a bit of deal hound to say the least. But, I haven’t seen any real roundups of deals that will help you have a better sex life- so here ya go. Love Hope Adventure Shop If you didn’t know, Love Hope Adventure, my sister site, has a shop. You can get 50% off of your order in our shop between now and Monday at midnight. Use the coupon code blackfriday at checkout. You can see our…

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4 Marriage Bed Tips Round-up

Are you looking for some new ways to spice up your sex life? There’s many fun things you can do to make sex feel better for you or your spouse. I put together a round-up of marriage bed tips you can try. 1. Button Rub Intercourse Technique Marriage Bed Tips suggests that you use the button rub technique in order to stimulate a wife’s clitoris during sex. God designed a woman to have 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris. If you haven’t taken time to really get to know your anatomy, it is important that you and your spouse explore….

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Can You Have Sex All Day Long?

My friend Jay Dee from Uncovering Intimacy shared about his experience of having sex all day long. He wrote a post about it and mapped out exactly what he did and gave some recommendations of how you can also do the same thing. What I really loved about this is that he was so creative with his spouse. He heard an idea and retro-fitted it to work with his specific life situation. If you want to get some ideas of how you can have sex all day long, then check out his post over at Uncovering Intimacy.   A Day…

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How to Be More Enthusiastic In The Bedroom

I had a reader ask me to share ways they could be more enthusiastic in the bedroom. This is a tough thing for lower drive spouses. Since they don’t always feel excited, they can struggle to be enthusiastic about love making. Here’s what you can do to be more enthusiastic- 1. Admit That You Enjoy Sex It is so important that you admit that you personally enjoy sex. This is different than saying you like having sex for your spouse’s sake. Instead, you need to embrace how sex makes you feel. Let yourself get excited about the emotions and feelings…

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How to Approach Your Spouse After They Have Refused Something Sexual

Have you tried to go to your spouse regarding something sexual that you want to try and been shot down? I think this is pretty common in marriages. There could be any number of reasons that this happens. So, what do you do if you want to try to ask again? Here’s a few tips to help you have the conversation again. Be Patient and Give Time For one thing, you need to be patient and give your spouse time. Let at least a few months pass before you bring this up again. I know that may be a long…

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Don’t Have Sex FOR Your Spouse Have Sex WITH Your Spouse

I’ve been taken back by the number of conversations I’ve had about sex where the person I’m talking to says something like this- “I need to get better about sex for my spouse”. I’m sorry- but if you take on that attitude, you’re gonna fail. Besides, your spouse can tell the difference if you are having sex for them, verses with them. Having sex FOR your spouse comes across as an obligation- not something you are are going to get any benefit from. However, if you decide you want to have sex WITH your spouse, then it becomes a mutually…

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How to Orgasm With a Vibrator

Ograsms are complicated for many women. Just because you can reach climax one way, doesn’t mean you can reach it through a different method. Having only one way to orgasm can be discouraging for some women. Not being able to reach that point at all is even more discouraging. I’m going to assume that if you are reading this, then you aren’t against sex toys. If you are, then this isn’t an article for you. I want to give you a few tips on using a vibrator to achieve orgasm with your spouse. Just as a side note, I’m of…

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